Distribute the drinking water, fruits and sweets amongst your members of the family as prasad and also have some by yourself at the same time eventually. Another etymology suggests that valga indicates "to paralyze" and symbolizes the strength of stambhana, "paralysis" that the goddess is alleged to grant; this idea https://vashikaran35555.thezenweb.com/detailed-notes-on-baglamukhi-74045275